Virginity - Is it a thing of the past?
Topic started by CITIZEN (@ 184.108.40.206) on Thu Aug 2 02:39:40 .
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Premarital Sex is an activity which is gaining popularity in the younger generation. Has the concept of virginity lost its purpose? Do you feel that virginity is a thing of the past? Do males and females have the same attitude towards virginity today? Please share your thoughts...
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- From: anon (@ 070.a.002lg.syd.iprimus.net.au)
on: Tue Dec 30 02:46:32 EST 2003
dont worry it can even be done with a simple tampon, tell him you used tampons
- From: gia (@ cache-mtc-am01.proxy.aol.com)
on: Fri Jan 2 03:41:52 EST 2004
well i am a spanish person and in my family we dont have none of those strict rules like the muslims do and the indias...like the ones of marrying a sibling and having to be from the same religion..well i have a big problem a cusin of the family, whom i never met, came to america two years ago. He liked me ones he saw me and i liked him too.We started dateing and our love for eachother was a big secret because my mother doesnt accept it...she doesnt like the idea of us being together because we are cousins....the good thing is that he is not my first cousin.........u know? like when his mom and my mom are sisters well they are not sisters.me and him are third cousins wich means that his mom is my moms first cousin(because there moms are sisters thats why they become first cousins) and his mom is my second cousin and he becomes my third.....and our love for eachother is so strong that we are going to have two years together and my mom doesnt know anything...because i fool her real well.:)i have been with him since i was 14 years old and he was 18 and now i am 16 and he is turning 21 in march.....i want to make love to him but i am too scared.i tried to do it various of times.but one day when he was inside it hurt.and he took it out....i wanted to know how can i loose my virginiy without being so afraid of the pain...and my mom is leaving to florida next week and he is coming over.:) we are both planing for our future and we are geting married later on in life......he is already in college and is going to buy a house..by the time i am 18 i am moving out of my home.....how can my mom not find out i lost my verginity with him or any other guy?
- From: ashtanama (@ 220.127.116.11)
on: Sun Jan 4 14:02:27 EST 2004
While it is true that premarital sex is on the rise, there are many people who are chaste on their wedding night. So please do not generalize.
You are too focussed about one thing and only one thing, bleeding on your first night. Now this is silly and really silly. First of all it is quite possible that the guy whom you will get married to you will not doubt your chastitiy but remember, in most intimate relationships secrets dont remain. Your husband will know eventually. Slips of tongue, your friend telling her friend telling her friend telling her husband telling your husbands friend telling your husband. So the entire excercise of not telling falls flat on the face.
My suggestion to you will be to find a husband which matches your sexual experiance or past. This way he will know what u have gone through and this will result in a much better understanding among yourselfs.
Well these are my inputs.
- From: baba bebe booboo (@ cm16.omega163.maxonline.com.sg)
on: Mon Jan 5 12:15:54 EST 2004
Mrs desperate ..the more bad things he does to u like hacking inside you e-mail the more people will believe that you are good and telling the truth and he is bad and telling lies
- From: A cute guy (@ eux0000011-pip1.eu.verio.net)
on: Sun Jan 11 10:12:18 EST 2004
Any girl wanna hot date with me today just get in touch. We will have dinner followed with breakfast, full fun.
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