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Quote Originally Posted by padmanabha

'There is some self-interest behind every friendship.
There is no Friendship without self-interests.
This is a bitter truth.'

Not Only for Friendship.!... but also for any sort of HUMAN-RELATIONS....

..and with NON-HUMAN Pets... too.!



Rather EMPATHY (Imagining YOURSELF in the Others position, whom YOU are dealing with)...

...is the TRUE LIFE-CHARACTER... of Human-Values...

...which Can EASILY make YOUR Life ....a REAL PARADISE.!...

...commensurate with the Degree and Standard of such a Healthy Spirit...

...YOU exhibit by way of YOUR Sincere Intention...

....implemented on ground... by means of YOUR... WORDS AND ACTIONS... while dealing with others.

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Yes. Even a Husband and Wife... who say... WE ARE WEDDED TOGETHER in all matters...

..do not mean... LACK OF SELF-INTERESTS.!

No Man marries... just as a SELFLESS OFFER... in the interests of a Stranger Woman....

...and Vice Versa.

But why He and She marry.?

Because he needs a FEMALE as Wife for him... and a Mother for his Children.

Whereas, on the other side... She needs a MALE as her Husband.

So, In return for getting HIS NEEDS OF FEMALE, fulfilled...

...he is prepared to RECIPROCATE by offering his Role... to fulfil her needs FOR A MALE as her Husband...

....alongside a Leader Caretaker to function as the Guardian for her and her Children...

..in a Team-Spirit.

So to say... for everything we aspire from others... we must have a SINCERE HEART to offer its DUE PRICE.... in return.!

That is... THE LIFE... in any case.!..

Yes ANY CASE IN LIFE... Be it in Profession, Business, Purchase, Selling, Marketing, Homely Functions and Celebrations, Employment, Learning... and What Not.?


Even God and Nature adopt the Same Law of... "GIVE AND TAKE"... Policy.


Empathy... the Best Policy...

...for REAL HAPPINESS...coupled with SUCCESS in Life.!


Not a Theory... But a PRACTICAL SELF-DISCIPLINE.!!!

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