Well..
Since many people are feeling that this thread is biased towards males alone.
I have re-created this thread under a different name. :D
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Well..
Since many people are feeling that this thread is biased towards males alone.
I have re-created this thread under a different name. :D
:huh:
vanthuteeeeeeeeeeeeeean 8-)
Vaa Great machi !! :D
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IMHO, In Bachelor life we can enjoy a lot without any tension.
We don't have to care abt
- children
- wife
- pension plan
- buying a house
simply
"Bachelor Life - A care-free life in which we never keep anything with us"
We share a lot of things and we never restrict ourselves to myself and myfamily kind of attitude.
Bachelors life oru naal aluturum..
Marriage life is adventourous
Aha! NTR garu, meeru mathrum correct maata annaru!! :clap: :thumbsup: :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Raikkonen
Marriage aana avlo advantages..
Nalla cook pannalam... etc
All men are different. All husbands are the same
Selva, eppadi Bachelor life vs Married life-nnu topic start panningana how can you expect us girls to contibute :lol: :P
Good point SS!
Enna Selva, the topic seems to be biased towards males dont u think? :P :lol:
Abbah! Intha oru point thaana?? :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by Raikkonen
Ithu naale thaan pomblenguh nammale intha vishayathile underestimate pannaranguh!
NTR garu, ithu + pointaa, - pointaa?? :lol:Quote:
All men are different. All husbands are the same
:lol: Yeah, the apt topic for someone who's countng his days to get married & can seldom concentrate on anything but his childhood sweetheart :D
Man, don't let the romantic in me die so young- we'll think about it after a couple of years! :D
Well Paaji, on the bright side, atleast u dont hav to concentrate on her once u hav her rite in front of u all the time! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Alan
On the downside, tat does, in many a marriage nowadays, also tend to lead to a time wen one can concentrate on nething but their spouse! :(
Cook panrathu yaaru???
Aah......now TATs an important point for u to think abt, NTR garu! :wink: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
U may hav sumthin to say abt this since u'd mentioned abt cooking! :wink:
selva,
muthalla nalla irukkum.
apram nammakkunnu oruthar care panna illaiyEnnu 45 years kku mela thonum :)
When it is too late!!!
yup pp maam.
But u know what, one of my distant relative used to argue...
"I CAN FIND someone at 45 for just emotional support".
But the fact is, IT JUST DOES NOT COME AS A PACKAGE.
It has to develop......... thro thorns and roses. :)
Its interesting to know, that she is MARRIED AND HAPPY indeed too :)
One old man was trying to find me a partner last year. Then he said to me one day, what is marriage pointing to his wife? He said all life he struggled to look after some 40 people on top of his head including his wife. His son also said to me that he wished he were in my place - single.
No doubt there are pros and cons to being a bachelor/spinster. At times you are happy being single and at other times, wish you were with a spouse; your ideal partner. This is life. I guess as you get older you wish you were married. But over the years you do develop friendship good enough to be companion, I mean someone to converse with and share your social life. Not our customs, but seem to be the trend of the time.
A few month ago I visited one woman in hospital. She is about 60 years old. She was surprised I am still single, seeing me after 13/14 years. She said she knows many good single people (including her daughter and some single males) who are not getting married, it must be the sign of the time :(
Selva, is right, being single you spend lots of your time doing "charity". You don't have much personal freedom as people from the outside assume :wink: Now i have learnt to ignore phone calls from people seeking some kind of help, taking up almost all the time you have left for yourself. You want to help out but not like this. Then the family makes their own demands, claiming you are single and the older rest, busy with family life. Tough :(
Gs good one :)
Bachelor life rocks :D you dont need to marry girl/boy just for companionship, just friends are enough to keep life going.........
Marraige life on the other hand might be sweet commitment or burden for few :P
Ippa kalam mari pochu....
Theres no weaker sex after marriage nowadays...
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Originally Posted by ssanjinika
Oops.. I want the views from all the sides. How they perceive it and all?
BTW, SS, Don't u think some threads like LUNGI are not biased towards males alone?
Don't tell me that you have not posted anything there :lol: (just kidding) :wink:
Lamby..
Yar venumnalum cook pannalam..
But the main thing is.. Sappadanum...
athe! athe!
There's a small difference between after and before marriage. Before marriage, I bought roses for my partner; after marriage, I'm buying bumbus for my kids.
Hmm.....I guess this one difference cud be minimised if b4 marriage u buy roses for ur partner, after marriage u buy mallipoo morum for ur life-partner (if she wears them of course! :P).......so the common factor here being flowers & for the same person! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by game
Wat r bumbus btw? :?
Oh, and super avtaar u've got! :D
Then what about people eating the dishes in Marriage halls made by men?Quote:
Originally Posted by Raikkonen
:roll: :cry: :( :huh: :|
Gotcha! You must be a married female :DQuote:
Originally Posted by crazy
Before marriage is good
no tension
no responsibilities
no restriction
lot of chellam from parents
we can postpone but can't escape from it.
Why you dont have tensions,responsibilities,restrictions now?? :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
Or do you think you wont get 'Lots of Chellam' from your parents after your marriage?? :?
yah i dont have any tension, responsibilities now. I get whatever I want.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
chellam a4 marriage sure I'll get but once in a while when I visit my mom's place :-)
-> So you dont have any tension at office?
-> No responsilities in your work
.... How come then you are actually 'Working'!!!
I dont feel kids would be getting "chellam" only when you visit their places :roll: :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
that is professional. im speaking abt personalQuote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
:-)
But i didn find the word 'Personal' in any of your previous posts :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy
Quote:
Originally Posted by great
:roll: i didnt mean that i wont get it when im far from them but i can enjoy only when im with them.
those things to be understood. ppl who have something on head can understand :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
:mrgreen: chumma poluthu pogala athan :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by swathy