KANNEER THERIKKUM!
Topic started by AGALYAN (@ 61.11.80.31) on Fri Nov 14 00:58:29 EST 2003.
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Ennodu nee konda vivaathangalai
endroe nee rathu seithirunthaal,
Indroe nammukkul "Vivagarathu"
Irunthirukkaathu!
Neethi mandrathil Vaathangal seithu, vazhkkadi
ennodu nee konda vivaathangalai
eduthukkaati ennai uthari thalli;
ennodaana uravai rathu seithai
aanaal ondrai mattum nee maranthittai;
vaazhkaai unnai uthari thalli, naatkkal
neraya aayuttru enbathai!
Responses:
- From: Shakthipriya (@ 203-195-202-195.now-india.net.in)
on: Sat Nov 15 12:24:44 EST 2003
hello agalyan,
kavithai is great..
karuthu...well sad to see, lots of divorces happenings these days, for sheer unimportant reasosn like
1. mismatch in wave length etc.
There are things which go wrong in both the sides, may it be a man or a woman.
"aanaal ondrai mattum nee maranthittai;
vaazhkaai unnai uthari thalli, naatkkal
neraya aayuttru enbathai! "<<<<<<<<<<
I think its not portraying the correct picture if one says, because a woman, divorces her husband, vaazhkai or life is lost.
HOW CAN IT BE?
She just dont wanna live with him. that does NOTT mean she loses life. She still has life, may be with remariage or may be without marriage but still can achieve thigns.
MARRIAGE ALONE DOES NOT QUALIFY FOR SUCCESS OR FAILURE IN LIFE.
Sometimes or many a times, life is MORE MEANINGFUL WITHOUT MARRIAGE.
- From: AGALYAN (@ 61.11.80.183)
on: Mon Nov 17 00:02:19 EST 2003
Good question Shakthi priya,
But My intention was to say
that by quitting ur husband
for whatsoever silly and naive
reasons, You have missed out a
wonderful person in your life,
which maens that you mite live
further with r without an other
marriage but still you would not
find a person like your husband!
so in a way you have lost a good life!!
ithu thaan antha varigalin arthamm
oru vellai intha vilakkam athil
illaathathaal ungallukku
antha santhegam vanthu ullathu!
adutha kavithayil seer seyyappadum!
Nandri meendum ungalukku
- From: shakthi priya (@ 203-195-202-195.now-india.net.in)
on: Mon Nov 17 02:52:52 EST 2003
kool agalyan...i kinda get the meaning, just wanted to portray, that LIFE IS NOT LOST IF MARRIAGE IS LOST!
I do agree, there are number of women, who without right reason, forgo their wonderful man or husband. Pathetic, that the institution of divorce which should rather provide a vent for tortured soul, is becoming more like an excuse for unwanted ego of women!
keep writing more
- From: malligai (@ 65-102-231-164.dnvr.qwest.net)
on: Tue Nov 18 23:18:50 EST 2003
Agalyan,
ungaloda kavithai rompa nala iruku...
Ennodu nee konda vivaathangalai
endroe nee rathu seithirunthaal,
Indroe nammukkul "Vivagarathu"
Irunthirukkaathu!
-----there r two people in every marriage, and if it fails, both r responsible for that...both the partners must try to fix it...and once it is over, there is no point in blaming each other for something that is already 'dead and gone'...
(i have seen my friend and his wife go thru a divorce, and they were blaming each other for everything..it was very painful to watch that..)
- From: Agalyan (@ 61.11.77.143)
on: Wed Nov 19 00:06:48 EST 2003
Nandri malligai mattrum shakthi priya. Ungal thodar vimarsanagalae ennai thodarnthu ezhuthaa ooekvikkarathu!!.
- From: johnbosco (@ )
on: Wed Oct 13 00:33:27
please send me a kalyana alaippu kavithai to print in my friends invitation card
- From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.157)
on: Wed Oct 13 03:23:53 EDT 2004
:-)
shakthi,
i am not sure in which november agalyan, you and malligai wrote this.
// I think its not portraying the correct picture if one says, because a woman, divorces her husband, vaazhkai or life is lost. //
in this poem, i dont think it is written on behalf of a MAN. the poem make sense even if the poem is read from the GIRL's point of view.
// for sheer unimportant reasosn like
1. mismatch in wave length etc. //
- BTW, shakthi, do you think mismatch in wave length is an unimportant reason ? i happened to work in a company once, and they project 20 reasons to be a successful person in which the first point listed was "choose a good better half and this would solve your 95% or problem". :-)))
:-)
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